In addition to November being No Shave November and the month I began chemotherapy in 2016, it’s also the month I began writing about my cancer journey. ABSOT was officially launched towards the end of the month and since then, I have published over 100 pieces here, in addition to about 120 other guest posts/interviews on other sites.

Last year around this time, I wrote about the story behind the creation and original intention of ABSOT. The first plan was to begin developing a comprehensive resource for someone facing testicular cancer, as it was something I could not easily find when I was initially diagnosed. Since the active treatment part of my testicular cancer journey wrapped up almost two years ago, I haven’t added new pieces in this regard.

However, I do frequently receive emails from new patients who find my blog. It’s nice to see that the resource I wish I had is helping others and I can point them to one of my posts about what to expect in their coming journey, whether they’re wondering if they should bank sperm for the future, how hair loss will go, or if nausea ever proves to be an issue.

Despite not having an active testicular cancer experience to write about, I still continue to publish pieces frequently

These pieces are generally focused on two of the other goals of ABSOT — sharing an honest look about what it means to be a cancer survivor and broadening lines of dialogues about men’s health as a whole. These are two vital parts of my post-cancer life (so much so that the current series on ABSOT is literally called “Post-Cancer Life” and form the bulk of my writing these days).

Beyond the PCL series, I have also opened up ABSOT to share the voice of others through the Band of Ballers series. This series was launched in April 2018 and features other testicular cancer patients, survivors, and advocates who have grabbed their life by the ball(s) to spread awareness about this disease. I get to play more of an editor/producer role in these pieces and it is completely awe-inspiring to see other men sack up to share their stories so openly in hopes of destigmatizing men’s health.

In the future, I hope to continue this series and bring in advocates for other men’s health conditions, such as when John Falk shared his story with male breast cancer. At the end of the day, I’m still just one man, with one testicle, and one blog, but by giving a platform to other men to share their health journeys, we can get the ball rolling on changing this narrative.

In addition to writing on ABSOT, I became a regular contributor to CURE Voices in March 2018

CURE is the largest publication for patients, survivors and caregivers in the US. Knowing this, I was honored when they reached out to bring me on board. Perhaps my favorite thing about having CURE as an additional place to write is that I can keep ABSOT’s focus on men’s health and post more generalized cancer pieces on CURE. The community on the CURE Voices forums truly “get” what I’m saying in these pieces, so it’s great to have another place to share my random rambling thoughts.

While the first few posts on CURE were remixed versions of my original journey and posts from ABSOT, I also regularly produce exclusive pieces that do not appear here. Since I did a top twelve list last year of my favorite ABSOT posts, I felt it was just as important to do one this year for CURE, since they have become such an integral part of my writing process. The list is presented in descending order.

Honorable mentions:

  1. Conquering the Spartan Sprint After Cancer — About a month before my diagnosis in 2016, I “ran” (read: walked) the Spartan Sprint. Just a few weeks ago, I did significantly better.

  2. What Cancer Survivor Day Means to a Testicular Cancer Survivor — June 3, 2018 was Cancer Survivor Day. This is what it means to me.

  3. Another Spring, Another Worry, Another ‘Balltrasound’ — Fears of recurrence is a constant struggle. However, I’m learning to handle it better.

  4. But First... Let Me Take a Cancer Selfie — Beyond the blog, social media is how I raise awareness.

  5. The Dark Side of Cancer and Social Media — As a continuation of above, this is what I see as a troubling misuse of social media in the cancer community.

  6. Pulling the Cancer Card — It’s a powerful way to get what you want, but when is too far?

  7. Why October Scares Me — October is diagnosis month for me. Sometimes, thinking back on it is more terrifying than any Halloween movie.

  8. Chemo Brain Returns? — Chemo brain (discussed more in depth in this feature I did for CURE Today) is a real thing, and sometimes I wonder if it’s truly gone.

  9. How Cancer Has Taught Me to Just Say No — It may sound selfish, but after facing cancer, I spend more time saying no to things that just don’t appeal to me.

  10. ‘I’m Not an Inspiration,’ Says a Testicular Cancer Survivor — Of all the words that have been used to describe me, “inspiration” is among my least favorite.

Since this is my second year of writing, I figure I’d double up and continue with two lists… even though I no longer have two testicles

Without further ado, I present the second annual top ten ABSOT posts of 2017-2018, again in descending order. *Please note I chose to put both lists in descending order because an undescended testicle is a factor for an elevated risk for testicular cancer.

Honorable Mention:

  1. My Definition of Surviving — One Year Later — What surviving cancer truly means to me, as I reflect on one year of remission

  2. Looking for Clarity — A piece where I open up about my mental health journey with depression, post cancer

  3. Progress with Prozac — A continuation of the piece above, detailing how antidepressants helped me overcome depression after cancer

  4. A Ballsy Challenge — Five easy ways to make the most of Testicular Cancer Awareness Month and beyond

  5. A Research Study By CACTI — My analysis of the spring 2018 CACTI study about men’s perceptions of testicular cancer

  6. Every Man Needs a Urologist — An eye-opening interview with Dr. Modlin, of the Cleveland Clinic about their third annual MENtion It survey

  7. What’s the Deal With Testicular Exams at the Doctors? A Research Study — An investigation I did about testicular exams at doctors office. Not to spoil it, but about 78% of men reported that they weren’t taught how to do a self-exam

  8. Making Testicular Self-Exams Standard Practice in Virginia’s High Schools — The achievement I am most proud of with my awareness work — the creation of a PSA for high school students

  9. An Open Letter to Tim Howard and Cremo — My response to Tim Howard and Cremo Company misusing the No Shave November hashtag to promote their products instead of men’s health

  10. Eight Reasons Why One Ball Is Better Than Two — This post dives deep into the advantages of having only one testicle and is a peak-ABSOT post, blending humor and education AKA my new favorite pair

On a personal level, writing is my therapy after facing testicular cancer

I’ve touched on this in last year’s post, but I can never understate the importance of finding an outlet for dealing with cancer. For me, I have a hard time verbally speaking my feelings out loud. I can never seem to find the spoken words to reflect what I am trying to say, but I don’t have any problem writing them out. When I am feeling down, I write. When I am feeling proud, I write. It gives me an outlet and helps me process.

By having written so much over the past two years, I have a more or less complete record of my life and how far I’ve come. Every few months, I go back to reread the pieces to really reflect on what an incredible journey I’ve been on since October 2016. I don’t have any plans to stop, as this is a passion that truly brings me joy and helps me finding purpose and meaning in life.

Here’s to having a ball as we begin looking forward to a great third year of writing about balls.

This post originally appeared on A Ballsy Sense of Tumor. It is republished with permission.